Does Being a Woman Mean Being On a Diet?
Note: This is one of a couple of posts with reflections on two memoirs I recently read by those who struggled with eating disorders:...
How Far Will You Go?
Note: This is the first of a couple of posts that touch on anorexia. “I was worried that you’d become anorexic.” A family friend...


The Danger of Too Much Control
I will never forget the day that I got an e-mail from a dear friend saying she hadn’t enjoyed my recent visit because I seemed to be too...
Everyone is Hungry For Something
Note: I recognize that some hungers/cravings are not healthy, and can cause problems significant problems for the individual. This piece...
No More Apologies
Note: Last week I wrote about the idea of daring to be beautiful, and this week’s post resulted from thinking more about that and my...
Do You Dare To Be Beautiful?
I recently saw a post on Facebook about an obese young woman taking revealing photographs of herself, with the words “Be beautiful”...
Does Movement Bring Happiness, or Soda?
“Movement is happiness.” This is the theme behind Coca-Cola’s newest ad campaign as they attempt to refute concerns about the number of...
Existentialism and Chocolate
Most evenings, I treat myself to a Dove dark chocolate, the ones with a brief message inside the wrapper. Most of the times they’re...


Would You Eat Part of a Cow's Stomach?
If you’re like me, the thought of eating tripe or anything made from a cow’s stomach generates an immediate shudder of revulsion. Ew! Why...
Dating and Fat Girls
I recently saw this article and clip about fat girls and dating, and it raised a lot of good points about what heavy women face in the...